Going alone at a bar? Can someone say, “awkward”? Well, that’s what a lot of people think. But it doesn’t have to be awkward at all! In fact, many people prefer going to the bar alone so they can enjoy drinks and conversation on their own terms.
We’re here to give you some tips on the best ways to be alone at a bar and play it cool. Before you know it, you’ll feel cool, and you’ll want to continue this newfound pastime of solo bar visits!
Here are some tools of the trade we want to pass on to you. Happy bar-hunting!
1. Choose the Right Bar
You’ve probably heard this popular phrase originating from the real estate world: “Location, Location, Location“! It turns out that can apply to bars as well. You are probably going to do fine no matter which bar you choose, but you can afford to find places that may be more ideal than others.
If you are just starting out on your solo adventures, pick out a bar that feels cozy and casual. You don’t need to immediately seek out the high-end nightclubs or themed bars that might overwhelm you if you aren’t there for a purpose.
And if the bar you choose isn’t working out, find another one!
2. Sit at the Bar, not the Table
The bar is a convenient place for singles and strangers to gather around casually. You won’t look out of place sitting at a bar by yourself. If you decide to get a table for one, however, you may be drawing more unwanted attention to yourself.
Plus, if you’re looking to sharpen up your social skills, it’s best to start with the bar. It’s much easier to make casual chitchat and exchange conversations with people you may meet.
3. Go at Less Busy Times
It may seem weird not to go during peak hours, but you might actually feel more relaxed and refreshed when there aren’t too many people around. This is especially true if you are looking to go to a bar alone to decompress after a long day of work. Going to a busy bar filled with loud music and lots of different groups of people can be overwhelming.
If you are actively looking to meet more people, though, then take the opposite advice. Find out when a bar’s Happy Hour is and take advantage of the opportunity to meet all kinds of different people.
4. Become a Regular
You’ll start to feel more comfortable being alone at a bar when you are familiar with the surroundings. Make sure to go back to one of the bars you really liked, and you will soon become a fixture there. A great way to establish this pattern of familiarity is to speak with your bartender and establish a relationship with them. You never know, they might help set you up with an interested single in the future! At least, that’s what GQ recommends.
5. Bring an Ice Breaker
Don’t just sit there and stare. Make sure you bring at least something with you to pass the time as you spend your evening at the bar. Try to bring something with you that could be a potential conversation starter.
Maybe you work from home; bring your laptop and pull up something interesting you’re working on. Perhaps someone will want to ask you about it! Or, if you’re an artist, whip out your sketchbook. Even looking at something interesting on your phone can help break the ice!
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